Advocate for Yourself: Don’t Let a Contractor Gaslight You or Excuse Poor Work

When you hire a contractor for your home — whether it’s a remodel, new build, or even a small repair — you’re paying for a service. That service should be clearly defined, transparent, and completed to the agreed-upon standard.

Unfortunately, some homeowners feel intimidated or even gaslighted when a contractor doesn’t follow through, arrives late without explanation, or worse, shows up impaired by drugs, alcohol, or cannabis. It’s important to know: you have every right to stand up for yourself and protect your investment.

You Define the Service — Not the Contractor

When you sign a contract and pay for work, you are entitled to set expectations. This means:

• Clear start and finish times.

• Agreed-upon scope and quality of work.

• Professional behavior on your property.

You do not have to tolerate excuses, missed deadlines, or sloppy execution. You are the client, and your home is one of your most important assets.

“Mountain Time” Isn’t an Excuse

Yes, living in the Colorado mountains means occasionally dealing with snow events, wildfire evacuations, or weather delays — these are real and valid reasons for changes in schedule.

However, "Mountain Time" should not become a blanket excuse for showing up late, hungover, or visibly struggling with addiction. These issues are not just unprofessional — they can compromise the safety of your home and the well-being of your family.

Professionalism Means Communication

A professional contractor will always communicate clearly. If there’s a valid reason for a delay, you should hear about it before you’re left waiting. If emergencies or weather arise, they should be upfront and provide a new timeline.

Contractors who dodge questions, blame the homeowner, or try to make you feel unreasonable are showing red flags.

Your Rights as a Homeowner

• You have the right to ask for daily or weekly updates.

• You have the right to request that workers show up sober and prepared.

• You have the right to stop work if the contractor is not meeting agreed standards.

• You have the right to document all communication (and you should).

Stand Up for Yourself

The biggest mistake homeowners make? Staying quiet because they feel they “don’t know enough” or “don’t want conflict.” You are paying for a service — you deserve respect, honesty, and professional work.

If you feel uncomfortable or see repeated patterns of disrespect or unsafe behavior, don’t ignore it. Speak up. Seek advice from a trusted local builder or attorney if needed.

At Park County Construction, we believe in clear communication, defined expectations, and accountability. Our clients are our partners, and your trust is our top priority.